You’re ready to grow your family, and you’ve decided that surrogacy is the right choice for you. Now what? Where do you turn next? If you’re feeling overwhelmed and looking for more hand-holding than normal throughout the often complex surrogacy process, you might want to consider working with a surrogacy concierge.

But what exactly does a surrogacy concierge do? In this post, we’re going to explain all this and more so that you can make the best decision on how to move forward based on your personal needs.

What is a Surrogacy Concierge?

You may already be familiar with the two main options you have when it comes to the surrogacy process. You can either opt to work directly with a surrogacy agency, or you can take the independent route. But you can also choose to take either of these routes with the assistance of a surrogacy consultant.

The main goal of a concierge is to simplify the surrogacy process for Intended Parents, guiding them through each step of the process. If you decide that you want to DIY your experience by taking the Independent route, a concierge can walk you through the many details and logistics, help you build your ideal surrogacy team (lawyers, doctors, etc), assist in vetting your surrogate, coordinate travel, help with crisis management…essentially anything you could possibly need!

If you decide you would prefer working with an agency, surrogacy consultants can still offer a lot of value! They’ll start by helping you get matched with the right agency that can line up with your specific requirements. This in itself can save you a lot of overwhelm or even a decision you regret later on.

Additionally, a concierge can offer you a white glove experience, attending meetings with you, coordinating travel between you and your surrogate, and ensuring that the entire process moves as efficiently as possible. Let’s talk more about how a concierge can make your surrogacy journey much easier!

1. Personalized Advice and Guidance at Every Step

The biggest benefit to working with a surrogacy concierge is that you’ll never have to wonder what you should be doing next, or if you’re doing things the right way. Your concierge will walk you through each step of the process, from surrogate matching to coming home with your new baby. You’ll feel an endless source of comfort knowing that you have personalized support at every turn.

Your consultant can also help you select the right agency, manage appointments, break down complex legal or medical explanations, even send gifts to your surrogate. This is an investment that is well worth any expense so that you can have a smooth and rewarding surrogacy experience.

2. Simplified Communication

Managing a surrogacy takes a village, and keeping communication effective and smooth between all individuals involved can be challenging. Enter your surrogacy consultant. They will handle all the moving parts, acting as the main point of contact, ensuring that appointments are attended, every document is accounted for, and communication is open and clear.

This aspect is especially critical to reduce the number of misunderstandings that can occur, delaying or even disrupting your surrogacy journey. Every mistake has the potential to cause a domino effect of problems that you are just not going to want to deal with.

3. Emotional and Logistical Support

At times, surrogacy can be a highly charged process. You may find yourself needing more support. Your consultant can join you for important meetings with agencies, surrogates, lawyers, and more to make sure you’re clear on what’s happening. They will make sure you are asking all the right questions and have all the resources you need.

They also offer practical support that will help get you through the day-to-day logistics. Organizing travel, getting you referrals to therapists, or even just listening to your concerns. Most importantly, if things don’t go as planned, they can step in and take charge. They are experienced experts and they’ll know how to handle an unexpected situation if it arises.

4. Assistance Navigating Medical and Legal Systems

This is likely an area where you’ll appreciate a little extra help. Since your concierge has been through the legal process for surrogacy many times, they’ll be able to guide you through it much faster than if you tried to handle everything on your own. The legal details can get complicated, especially if you’re working with a surrogate in another state or country.

Fortunately, surrogacy consultants work directly with attorneys and clinics to make sure everything lines up, especially when it comes to very important things like pre-birth orders, hospital surrogacy requirements, and insurance coverage. You want that to be all organized ahead of time so you aren’t experiencing any unfortunate surprises along the way.

5. Save Time and Prevent Stress

As you’re going through the surrogacy process, you’re going to be juggling a lot. A surrogacy consultant exists to reduce the burden when it comes to handling stress so that you can focus on the exciting parts of surrogacy. You’ll have peace of mind knowing that a professional is working behind the scenes to make everything come together. They are dealing with all the details you don’t really need to worry about, so you can enjoy the process and just focus on self-care as an Intended Parent..

Learn More About Surrogacy Concierge Services

Beyond just assisting with the practical aspects of the surrogacy process, your consultant also serves as an emotional ally, a coordination expert, and a vital point of communication throughout your family-building journey. If you’re looking to create a smooth surrogacy process where you won’t have to worry so much about all the moving parts, relationships, and legal details, working with a surrogacy concierge may be a great fit for you!

To learn more about our concierge services at Surrogacy Simplified, book a complimentary discovery call to discuss your surrogacy needs.